Over the years I had listened to my friends and others when they talk about their lives; many a time just listening; sometime suggesting, advicing or arguing.
Recently I've realised that they have to live their lives their way, the way they can, they may or they will! In actuality my ideas etc etc does not matter! They have to choose, take effort, struggle or stumble but in their way! That is what they do anyway! Who on earth live for somebody else or by somebody else's advice? all of us live a selfish way, to satisfy our own mind, body or soul! In every sacred life you may find a selfish reason. Ofcourse we are all humane!! Born to live!
So, let me do the job I am best at. Listening! Just lend a ear, a shoulder or hand! Let them lean but let them learn to live too! And let me remember this when next time I am tempted to advice someone!!
Recently I've realised that they have to live their lives their way, the way they can, they may or they will! In actuality my ideas etc etc does not matter! They have to choose, take effort, struggle or stumble but in their way! That is what they do anyway! Who on earth live for somebody else or by somebody else's advice? all of us live a selfish way, to satisfy our own mind, body or soul! In every sacred life you may find a selfish reason. Ofcourse we are all humane!! Born to live!
So, let me do the job I am best at. Listening! Just lend a ear, a shoulder or hand! Let them lean but let them learn to live too! And let me remember this when next time I am tempted to advice someone!!