Over the years I had listened to my friends and others when they talk about their lives; many a time just listening; sometime suggesting, advicing or arguing.
Recently I've realised that they have to live their lives their way, the way they can, they may or they will! In actuality my ideas etc etc does not matter! They have to choose, take effort, struggle or stumble but in their way! That is what they do anyway! Who on earth live for somebody else or by somebody else's advice? all of us live a selfish way, to satisfy our own mind, body or soul! In every sacred life you may find a selfish reason. Ofcourse we are all humane!! Born to live!
So, let me do the job I am best at. Listening! Just lend a ear, a shoulder or hand! Let them lean but let them learn to live too! And let me remember this when next time I am tempted to advice someone!!
Recently I've realised that they have to live their lives their way, the way they can, they may or they will! In actuality my ideas etc etc does not matter! They have to choose, take effort, struggle or stumble but in their way! That is what they do anyway! Who on earth live for somebody else or by somebody else's advice? all of us live a selfish way, to satisfy our own mind, body or soul! In every sacred life you may find a selfish reason. Ofcourse we are all humane!! Born to live!
So, let me do the job I am best at. Listening! Just lend a ear, a shoulder or hand! Let them lean but let them learn to live too! And let me remember this when next time I am tempted to advice someone!!
3 comments:
The stupid and hurried nature of human brain is to conclude fast,.. it is good, that is bad, he is good etc. It always compares with some reference it has in its store and decides. The whole world, universe is fantastic, it is the way you look at it, it appears to you.
If you do not compare with another,look unbiased, every being has an individuality we should learn to realize and enjoy it.
I agree with what Muthuvel has said. I too try and refrain from giving unsolicited advice unless it is to a family member or dear friend. Besides I wouldn't like getting unasked for advice - so why give the same to others?
But I must congratulate you on the fine art of being a good listener. You are one and I am trying to be one.
Muthuvel, yes this is beautiful world, i agree.
Kanchan, you are already a very pleasant person with a huge forgiving heart!
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